Who are you becoming?
Guiding you towards ease and fulfilment at work, relationships and life
Connect Within. Create Well-Being.
“All we have to do is to decide what to do with the time that is given us.” – J.R.R. Tolkien
“Who you are now and how you behave
is who you are becoming.” – Selena Betton
Today, I’ve hit the sweet-spot in life
Happily married. Meaningful relationships with family and friends. Earning a living doing what I enjoy. Making a contribution.
Sure, I still have stress. But I don’t stay stressed. And it’s because I’m in my sweet-spot. I’ve learnt to align my Key Life Indicators of Lifestyle, Livelihood and Legacy, my KLI’s.
But it wasn’t always this way
Growing up in a large family I wanted to make my mark. In a way, I did. By 27, I became a manager in a “Big-Six” accounting firm. By 30, I’d lived in Singapore, Tokyo, London, Sydney, New York and Hyderabad. Not bad for a Malaysian girl with mediocre school grades.
My CV became who I was on the outside… but inside… I felt increasingly disconnected. Sure, I was living a dream – but was it mine? The ‘higher’ I climbed, the bigger the gap. If only I had the time to figure things out. As they say, “be careful what you wish for”.
In 2004, I turned 30. And I found out I had cancer. It dawned on me: It wasn’t about time at all. Rather, it was how I decided to use my energy with the time that I had.
So I decided to declutter my mental, emotional, physiological and spiritual resistances. Let go of what I thought I wanted. And when I did, ease found me.
Effort is peddling harder
Ease is releasing the brakes
Becoming a leadership advisor
Since then, my time and energy is spent fine-tuning how to live well, love more and leave things a little better… aligning my KLI’s of Lifestyle, Livelihood and Legacy. Finding the sweet-spot in life? Is the most fulfilling journey.
In 2016, I left corporate life… though didn’t know it at the time. I mentored, volunteered, ran workshops, spoke at conferences, started publishing articles and trained in leadership advisory and became an accredited coach. And as clients started coming, my next chapter of meaningful work began.
At 42, I became a leadership advisor.
The dream has ended
This is the morning
– C.S. Lewis
What about you? Who are you becoming?
Transformation it’s a question of insight, intuition and inspiration. What are you searching for right now?
If you’re ready for change and you’re searching for easier ways … we will update outdated unconscious programming causing unnecessary pain and suffering. I can help identify and work on your blindspots.
If you want more success at work… you need different approach… you’re stuck or struggling… you want someone you can trust … I can be your sounding board and sparring partner so you have an easier time navigating the world of work.
If you’re considering a BHAG transition (big-hairy-audacious-goal)… and you know that the ‘people that got you where you are today aren’t going to get you where you want to go’… whether it’s the aim of moving from corporate life to starting a business? Changing countries? Relationship status? I can guide you on how to let go of your unconscious limiting beliefs about money, success and love.
You don’t have to start from scratch. Nor do it alone. Change is easier with experience and success is quicker together. If you’re ready to begin, I can accompany you along your journey. You can start with my blog, where I share my experiences and insights.
Or you can REACH out now for a complimentary discovery call to find out more.
From my journey to yours.
Be strong enough to stand alone
Smart enough to know when to need help
And brave enough to ask for it
– Ziad K. Abdelnour
- … feel stuck, are struggling or spinning in circles
- … aspire for more meaningful connections
- … are searching to go deeper and reach higher
REACH out now. I can help
Reach out now for a complimentary discovery call
Less Effort, More Ease
IF you’re struggling… or you’ve hit a snag… or feel there’s unnecessary pain and suffering… and you can’t out your finger on what it is…
With the right approach, change doesn’t have to be such a struggle.
Since most conditions, limitations or blocks you experience are imprinted long ago and perhaps long forgotten, it’s hard to ‘see’. If you could consciously work on them, you would already have done it. That’s why willpower, affirmations or positive thinking may not work – because they can’t address the three deeper basic needs, the need for safety, belonging and love.
Some programming is outdated, needs updating or fine-tuning. Some narratives need to be unpacked.
And that’s where you need to encounter the unconscious.
The reach approach
Holistic & Integrative
In order to reach your potential, remember R.E.A.C.H.
R for Role: Uncover what you play, is pushed onto you and what you really want
E for Experience: Tune into your thoughts, feelings and sensations
A for Awareness, Acceptance, Action: From insight to action
C for Choice: Find the courage to let go and move on
H for Humility: Be at ease with the unknown
How we can work together
Private Coaching Programme
Discover your capacity and capabilities. A six-month programme, two sessions per month (60-90 minutes each).
Reflect and discern system dynamics. Exclusive terms and conditions.
Proven comprehensive leading psychometrics tools. Reliable, valid, benchmarked.
Experiential workshops, speaking engagements.